| From Micromanaging
to Anger Management
Steve Adubato, Ph.D.
Q--Sony recently hired Andy Lack, the president of NBC, to take
over its music business. I assume Sony hired Lack because he is
a proven leader and manager who gets results. The problem is Andy
Lack lacks any experience in the music industry. Can a good leader
lead any organization, even if he or she has no skills or even an
interest in that particular industry?
A--Yes and no. A leader is a leader. He or she has certain qualities
that get people to move in one direction to achieve a specific goal.
Michael Bloomberg had no experience in government and now he is
the mayor of New York City. Before George Bush became governor of
Texas he was the owner of the Texas Rangers baseball team. Many
corporate CEOs were former presidents of universities or vice versa.
Yet, even if you have the skills to lead and they can be transferred
to a new arena, you have to have a genuine interest (some might
say a passion) for that industry. There is no substitute for caring.
Over the long haul, if that caring and passion is missing, the leader
and the organization will most likely fail.
Q--PowerPoint seems to be something that physicians generally don’t
do well. So I’m wondering, do you think there is something
about doctors or other highly trained professionals with a research
or technical background that inherently makes them poor communicators?
A--Short answer, yes. We’ve all seen doctors, lawyers, scientists
and academics become obsessed with jargon, acronyms and multi-syllabic
words that mean little if nothing to the rest of us. Too often,
these really “smart” people are speaking for themselves
and their colleagues, engaged in a game of one-ups man ship. The
other problem is that some of these same professionals just don’t
know when they are not making a connection with their audience.
They are oblivious and no one has the guts to tell them so. Bottom
line? People can go for decades making atrocious presentations and
never knowing it. That’s a shame, don’t you think?
Q--I am a supervisor and one of my employees constantly accuses
me of micromanaging her. In a recent review, I wrote that she takes
too many breaks, surfs the Internet too much and has a poor attitude.
Her argument is that I am looking too close at what she is doing.
Is this micromanaging?
A--No, I wouldn’t call that micromanaging. I would call it
concerned coaching. If your employee’s productivity isn’t
what it should be, you need to make it clear where there is a problem.
The “attitude” thing concerns me, however. When giving
feedback in the coaching process, you must be as specific as possible.
If you tell someone they have a “poor attitude” most
people will become defensive. Your feedback in this case is too
vague. What is a bad attitude? Next time you sit down with your
problem employee, be prepared to site a specific example where her
attitude or behavior impacted her productiveness or effectiveness
on the team. Then be prepared to offer some concrete advice for
improving the situation.
Q--I am in the 5th grade at George Washington School in Hillside.
I read your article about anger management and I agree. People should
be more careful of what they say and it can fall on deaf ears. When
you feel yourself getting angry, people should think before they
act and it would create a better mood for everyone. Don’t
you think?
A--You’re right, young communicator, we all have a lot to
learn, including me.
Dr. Steve Adubato coaches and speaks on the subjects of communication
and leadership and is the author of the book "Speak from the
Heart." Write to him at The Star-Ledger, 1 Star-Ledger Plaza,
Newark, NJ 07102, visit his Web site at www.stand-deliver.com,
or e-mail him at sadubato@aol.com.
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